Ghanaian musician Wendy Shay has ignited widespread public discussion following a Facebook post in which she reflected on the challenges of mentoring other people’s children, particularly when parental interference becomes a factor.
The post has raised questions about her relationship with two young influencers closely associated with her, Tracy Shay and Korkor Shay, both of whom have appeared alongside the singer at public events and performances in recent months.
In the post, Wendy Shay spoke candidly about the complexities of guiding minors who are not one’s biological children, suggesting that parents can sometimes make the process more difficult.
“The hardest part of mentoring someone else’s child is often the parents’ interference. What’s all this?” she wrote.
Although Wendy Shay did not mention any names, the comment quickly drew attention online, with some social media users speculating about possible tensions between the singer and the children or their families. Others interpreted the post as a general reflection on mentorship challenges rather than a direct reference to any specific situation.
Wendy Shay’s association with Tracy Shay first gained national attention after the young girl went viral for her energetic dance to the singer’s hit song Too Late during the All Ashaiman Schools Festival. The video circulated widely on social media, attracting both praise and criticism.
In response to online backlash directed at the child, Wendy Shay paid a visit to Tracy’s school, where she announced her decision to sponsor Tracy’s education from Class Five through to the university level. At the time, the singer explained that her intention was to protect the child’s future and ensure that her education remained the top priority.
Despite this gesture, Wendy Shay has faced criticism from sections of the public who question her decision to keep Tracy and Korkor close to her professional activities. Critics argue that the children should be shielded from the pressures and exposure that come with the entertainment industry.
Korkor Shay, like Tracy, became known through videos celebrating Wendy Shay’s music and performances. While less is publicly known about her background, Wendy Shay has previously stated that her involvement with Korkor is based on mentorship and encouragement rather than any formal or commercial arrangement.
Supporters of the singer have defended her actions, describing her as a positive role model who is using her platform to nurture young talent while providing opportunities that may otherwise be unavailable. They argue that mentorship, when handled responsibly, can play a crucial role in shaping children’s confidence and aspirations.
Wendy Shay has not indicated that there is any rift between her and the children. However, her Facebook post has reignited broader conversations about celebrity mentorship, parental influence, and the delicate balance between nurturing young talent and protecting children’s emotional and psychological wellbeing.
As discussions continue online, many observers say the situation highlights the need for clear boundaries, open communication with parents, and safeguards when minors are involved in the public spotlight.
